The Christian Parenting Podcast

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The Christian Parenting Podcast

With Steph Thurling
The Christian Parenting Podcast with Steph Thurling
As believing parents, we know how important it is to raise our kids with love and intentionality. We want to give our kids a full picture of God's love for them every day! But some days, it's really hard! We are stretched thin, tired, and often feel unequipped. The Christian Parenting Podcast gives parents the space and resources to set aside perfection and grow into the perfectly imperfect parents God made them to be. Join host Steph Thurling and her guests as they discuss practical tips and spiritual guidance for your parenting journey.
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Feb 18 • 34:58
Navigating grief with kids and supporting others with Annie F. Downs

This weeks conversation is a deeply meaningful one. Im sitting down with Annie Downs to talk about grief, faith, and supporting others during hard times. Annie and her sister wrote a childrens book, Where Did TJ Go?, after her sister lost her son, TJ. This book is an incredible resource for families navigating loss with young kids, and our conversation is full of wisdom and encouragement.  

Heres what youll hear in todays episode:

  • Where Did TJ Go? is a beautiful resource to help families talk about grief with young children.  
  • Grief isnt meant to be carried alonehaving people who show up and walk with you makes all the difference.  
  • We talk about the tough questions surrounding loss and how faith sustains us through them.  
  • Knowing how to be present and offer comfort to those grieving is one of the greatest gifts we can give.  

Annie F. Downs is a bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host known for her humor, authenticity, and deep faith. She has written numerous books that inspire and encourage readers in their walk with Christ. Where Did TJ Go?, co-written with her sister, is a heartfelt resource for families navigating grief with children.  

I hope this conversation leaves you feeling encouraged in your faith and equipped to support those around you. If you know someone who could benefit from this episode, please share it with them.

(02:59) The Journey of Loss: Annie's Story

(05:54) Creating Hope Through Literature

(09:07) Navigating Grief: Personal Experiences and Insights

(12:01) The Importance of Talking to Kids About Death

(15:11) Finding Hope in Heaven

(18:12) The Role of Community in Grief

(20:46) Encouragement for Parents and Grieving Individuals

Connect with Annie

Website

That Sounds Fun Podcast

Instagram

Resources Mentioned

Where Did TJ Go?

The Unbreakable Boy movie

Christian Parenting store

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Feb 11 • 25:37
Overcoming people pleasing with Jinger Vuolo

This weeks episode is extra special because we are celebrating two years of the Christian Parenting Podcast! I cant believe it! And to make it even more special, my very first guest, Jinger Vuolo, is back with us today. Shes here to talk about the struggles so many of us face in trying to meet others expectations.  

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Trying to please everyone can actually be more about ourselves than truly serving others.  
  • Showing up as your true self, rather than what others expect, is a way to glorify God.  
  • Jinger shares how she is beginning to guide her own children away from people-pleasing tendencies.  
  • We discuss real ways to break free from people-pleasing and the importance of finding a strong mentor.  

Jinger Vuolo is an author, speaker, and former reality TV personality known for her book Becoming Free Indeed and her latest release, People Pleaser. She is passionate about helping others find freedom in Christ and live with confidence in who God made them to be.  

Thank you all for two incredible years of this podcast! Im so grateful for you, and I hope this conversation encourages you to seek confidence in Christ rather than in the approval of others.

 

(00:00) Life Updates and New Beginnings

(01:58) Understanding People Pleasing

(06:06) The Impact of People Pleasing on Relationships

(10:10) Parenting and Teaching Kids about People Pleasing

(17:01) Practical Steps to Overcome People Pleasing

(22:09) Final Thoughts on Parenting and Community

Connect with Jinger

Instagram

https://www.jingerandjeremy.com/

Resources Mentioned

Becoming Free Indeed

People Pleaser

Christian Parenting store

The Unbreakable Boy movie

A Simply Healthy Life

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Feb 4 • 36:33
Raising Kids with Character in an Entitled World with Monica Swanson

This weeks episode is one that every parent can relate to. Im joined by Monica Swanson to talk about a struggle many of us faceraising kids who arent entitled in a world that often is.  

Here are a few takeaways from todays conversation:

  • As parents, we need to be intentional about combating entitlement in our homes.  
  • Teaching kids responsibility and real-life opportunities to work hard builds character.  
  • Helping our kids develop a heart of gratitude is one of the best ways to fight entitlement.  
  • Parenting is a learning process, and it's okay to wrestle with these challenges while seeking wisdom and growth.  

Monica Swanson is an author, speaker, and host of The Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly The Boy Mom Podcast). As a mom of four boys, she shares practical wisdom on raising kids with strong character, work ethic, and faith in todays world.  

This conversation is just two friends trying to figure it out together, and were so glad youre stepping into it with us. I hope you leave feeling encouraged and equipped to guide your kids toward gratitude, responsibility, and strong character. Enjoy!

(00:00) Understanding Entitlement in Today's Culture

(02:49) The Role of Technology and Parenting

(06:12) Celebrating Achievements: A Double-Edged Sword

(08:56) Instilling Gratitude as an Antidote

(12:00) Teaching Work Ethic and Responsibility

(16:56) Building Character and Responsibility in Kids

(18:01) Fighting Entitlement and Cultivating Gratitude

(19:45) Modeling Gratitude as Parents

(22:05) Intentional Parenting in a Selfie Culture

(24:58) The Importance of Service and Perspective

(29:35) It's Never Too Late to Start

(32:58) Surrounding Kids with Positive Influences

Connect with Monica

MonicaSwanson.com

The Monica Swanson Podcast

Instagram

Resources Mentioned

Character training course

Raising Prayerful Kids book

Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled World

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Jan 28 • 32:17
Healing, boundaries, and raising emotionally healthy kids with Melanie Shankle

This week, Im joined by Melanie Shankle to talk about her book, Here Be Dragons. Our conversation dives deep into important topics like generational trauma, relationships, and the impact of mean girls on young girls. Melanies focus on healing and boundaries is so powerful, reminding us that the path to raising emotionally healthy kids starts with becoming emotionally healthy ourselves.

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Raising emotionally healthy children starts with doing the work to heal yourself. Its never too late to begin.  
  • Boundaries are essential for protecting your emotional health and that of your family.  
  • Melanie encourages parents to pause and evaluate areas in their lives that need healing or adjustment for their own and their childrens benefit.  
  • We discuss the influence of relationships and mean-girl culture on young girls, and how parents can guide them toward healthy connections.  

Melanie Shankle is a bestselling author, speaker, and host of The Big Boo Cast podcast. Her latest book, Here Be Dragons, explores the complexities of relationships and the importance of emotional health. Melanies heartfelt writing and practical advice have made her a trusted voice for parents seeking to raise emotionally resilient children.

This episode is filled with both challenges and encouragement, offering actionable steps to prioritize emotional health in your family. I hope you find it as impactful as I did!

(02:57) The Evolution of Parenting: Embracing Change

(06:03) Healing from Generational Trauma

(08:57) Navigating Relationships: The Impact of Motherhood

(11:51) Breaking Generational Cycles in Parenting

(15:10) The Mean Girl Epidemic: Caroline's Experience

(17:59) Understanding the Roots of Mean Behavior

(21:00) The Importance of True Friendship

(24:00) Finding Grace in Relationships

(27:00) Final Thoughts: Embracing God's Plan for Our Kids

Connect with Melanie

The Big Mama Blog

The Big Boo Cast podcast

Instagram

Here be Dragons book

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Jan 21 • 50:48
Faith, family, and special needs advocacy with Alicia and Kirsta Graf

This weeks episode is extra special as Im joined by two of my favorite people, Alicia and Kirsta Graf. They are a mother-daughter duo who inspire me deeply. Alicia shares her parenting journey with Kirsta, who has down syndrome, and the lessons shes learned through adoption, loss, and raising three daughters. Kirsta is truly incrediblefunny, joyful, and a shining light. Their story is heartfelt, inspiring, and filled with wisdom.

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Alicia emphasizes treating your family as a team and studying each child to meet their unique needs.  
  • Relationships with those a season or two ahead in life can make a big difference in your parenting journey.  
  • Kirstas journeygraduating from Bethel University, working at the school, and contributing to Jacks Basketshows the incredible potential of every child.  
  • Parenting is full of surprises and challenges, requiring reliance on God and grace for yourself.  

This conversation is a beautiful reminder of the power of teamwork, grace, and celebrating the unique gifts of each family member. I hope you feel as encouraged as I did!

(06:01) Parenting Insights and Surprises

(11:45) God's Guidance in Parenting

(17:55) Kirsta's College Experience at Bethel University

(23:56) The Impact of College Programs for Special Needs

(30:40) Public Speaking and Personal Growth

(37:04) Reflections on Parenting

(42:45) Advice for Parents

Resources Mentioned

Bethel University BUILD program

Rubys Rainbow

Jacks Basket

Jacks Basket Instagram

Kirstas college drop-off video

The New Language of Toys book

A Word in the Hand book

Baby Sign Language Made Easy book

Mercy Watson book set

Christian Parenting Family Meeting Guide

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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About the Host

Steph Thurling

Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast.

Steph has her master’s in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children’s ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement.

Steph lives in Minnesota with her husband and three amazing and hilarious kids. When she is not hanging out with her family, you can probably find her on a walk with a friend, organizing things that won’t stay organized, or somewhere cozy reading a book.

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