Finding joy while parenting teens with Jeanette Tapley

Were continuing our series on identity this week, with a focus on finding self-worth and confidence through Christ. Be sure to check out our Identity Simplified Guide on our website! This incredible resource compiles over 90 tools to help affirm your child's identity in Christ.

Ashley Henriott is a confidence coach and speaker whose mission is to empower others to discover their worth in Christ. Her inspiring story and practical approach to building self-worth and confidence make her a sought-after mentor and coach for parents and children alike.

Heres what youll learn in todays episode:

• Ashley shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a confidence coach, emphasizing the critical role faith has played in building self-worth.
• We discuss common confidence obstacles and how they impact both parents and kids.
• Ashley provides actionable ways to help kids embrace and celebrate their true selves in Christ.

Ashley Henriott is a confidence coach and speaker whose mission is to empower others to discover their worth in Christ. Her inspiring story and practical approach to building self-worth and confidence make her a sought-after mentor and coach for parents and children alike.

Join us for this inspiring conversation, and leave with practical tools to help both you and your kids embrace the confidence and identity found in Christ.

(03:02) Ashleys Journey to Confidence Coaching

(06:01) The Role of Faith in Building Confidence

(08:57) Understanding Identity in Christ

(11:53) Confidence Killers: Comparison, Inaction, and Fear

(18:09) Empowering Our Children: Building Their Confidence

(25:01) Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Parents

Connect with Ashley

Confidence is an Inside Job 

https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/

@ashley.henriott

Resources Mentioned

Identity Simplified

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Welcome back to Week Two of our series on identity! This week, were diving into a super important yet challenging topic: sexual and gender identity. Ill be honest, having this conversation initially felt intimidating. But after hearing Rachel Gilson speak and reading her book, I knew she was the right person to guide us through this discussion.

Heres what youll learn in todays episode:

• Rachel emphasizes how our identity is ultimately tied to our relationship with God, which sets the foundation for navigating complex topics.
• We touch on the cultural elevation of romantic relationships to a place they were never meant to fulfill and how this impacts our understanding of intimacy.
• Rachel encourages us to point our children to Jesus as the true source of life and intimacy.
• A helpful tool introduced by Rachel for discussing difficult topics with your kids in a structured, compassionate way.

Rachel Gilson is a speaker, writer, and author of Parenting Without Panic in a LGBTQ-Affirming World and Born Again This Way. She shares her journey of coming to faith and navigating her sexuality, offering a unique and powerful perspective on identity in Christ. Rachels wisdom and vulnerability make her an invaluable voice for parents grappling with how to address topics of sexual and gender identity with their children.

This episode is filled with hope and encouragement, even as we tackle tough topics. I hope you feel as uplifted and equipped as I did after talking with Rachel!

(02:59) Understanding Identity in Relation to God

(05:48) The Pitfalls of Salvation by Romance

(09:02) Teaching Children the True Source of Life and Intimacy

(12:03) The 'Yes, No, Yes' Framework for Difficult Conversations

(19:21) Parenting from Love and Grace

(24:50) Supporting Children with Same-Sex Attraction

(27:17) Continual Communication and Love

(30:57) Living the Gospel

Connect with Rachel

RachelGilson.com

Resources mentioned

Parenting Without Panic in a LGBTQ-Affirming World

Born Again This Way

Identity Simplified

Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Today, Im thrilled to be joined by Jay Holland, another Christian Parenting Podcast Network host. His wisdom, kindness, and the way he is led by the Holy Spirit are evident in everything he does.

Heres what youll learn in todays episode:

• Jay shares the importance of both parents and kids understanding their identity in Christ, modeling this concept as a foundation for family life.
• How parents can focus on Jesus' character to understand their identity and guide their children in understanding theirs.
• Jay offers practical, solid ideas on how to talk to your sons and daughters about their identity in Christ.
• Jay offers a beautiful reminder that parenting is not a sprint but a marathon. It requires endurance, pacing, and taking care of ourselves along the way.

Jay Holland hosts Lets Parent on Purpose and Guided by Faith and serves as a family and student pastor. As a husband and father, he brings wisdom, compassion, and Spirit-led guidance to his conversations. Jays heart for helping parents and kids find their identity in Christ is truly inspiring, and he has contributed discussion guides for Identity Simplified, a new Christian Parenting digital resource for helping families talk about identity.

Check out the Identity Simplified guide and enjoy this insightful conversation with Jay. I know youll leave feeling equipped and encouraged for your parenting journey.

(02:50) Parenting as a Marathon: Endurance and Pacing

(11:05) Understanding Identity in Christ: A Foundation for Parenting

(18:50) Affirming Children's Identity: Made in the Image of God

(25:49) Modeling Repentance and Grace: A Parent's Example

(33:04) Finding Security in Identity: Looking to Jesus

(35:10) Biblical Conversations on Identity: Guiding Children and Teens

Connect with Jay:

Lets Parent on Purpose website

Lets Parent on Purpose Podcast

Guided by Faith

Guided by Faith website

Social media: @letsparentonpurpose @guidedbyfaith_podcast

Resources mentioned:

Identity Simplified

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Todays episode is a special treat as I introduce you to someone near and dearmy podcast producer and fellow podcast host, Jeanette Tapley! Jeanette hosts the Moms at Work podcast, part of the Christian Parenting Network, and she brings so much joy and wisdom to every conversation. 

Heres what youll learn in todays episode:

• Whether youre a working mom of little ones or navigating the teen years, Jeanette shares how to find joy in each stage of parenting.
• We discuss preparing for different parenting stages, so theres something valuable here, even if youre not in your teen years yet.
• Jeanette offers practical advice on setting rules that work for your unique family dynamic and keeping your familys priorities in check.
• Jeanette shares some of her favorite wisdom for parenting through various seasons, helping us stay grounded and joyful.

Jeanette Tapley hosts the Moms at Work podcast, where she connects with moms balancing work, life, and family. As a podcast producer and speaker, she brings her warm, relatable style to every conversation, making everyone feel like chatting with a friend. Jeanettes heart for encouraging moms in their daily lives shines through in her practical advice and joyful approach to parenting.

Join us for this fun and insightful episode where youll feel like sitting down for coffee with a trusted friend and mentor.

(03:25) Balancing Work and Parenting

(11:28) Setting Rules and Boundaries

(17:14) Navigating the Digital World

(18:23) Challenges of Parenting Teens

(19:08) Establishing Rules and Priorities

(22:25) Transitioning from Parenting to Mentoring

(23:22) The Joy of Seeing the Lord Move in Their Lives

(27:06) Trusting God and Having Faith in Difficult Times

(30:16) Fostering Strong Relationships with Your Teenager's Friends

(35:20) Choosing Your Battles Wisely in Parenting

Connect with Jeanette:

jeanettetapley.com

Instagram: @jeanettefreakingtapley

Tiktok: @jeanettetapley

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org

We are thrilled to welcome Ruth Chou Simons back to the podcast today! I am so excited to talk with her about her beautiful new children's book, Home Is Right Where You Are. Our conversation is rich with Ruths wisdom and practical advice for parenting in every season of family life.

Since this conversation was recorded, one of Ruths sons, Judah, was in a serious mountain biking accident. God is good and he is home after extensive surgery, but please join me in praying for Judahs continued recovery.

Here is what Ruth and I discuss in todays episode:

• How to create a home filled with God's presence and the importance of discipleship in everyday family life.
• The evolving journey of parenting and how to navigate various stages of family life with grace and intention.
• Practical tips from Ruth on raising boys to love Jesus (but applicable to girls, too!), with a focus on being present and keeping promises to your children.
• The process of launching children into adulthood and the value of sibling relationships.

Ruth Chou Simons is a bestselling author, artist, and speaker, known for her works GraceLaced, Beholding and Becoming, and When Strivings Cease. She founded GraceLaced, an online shop that combines her artwork and devotionals, offering spiritual encouragement to others. As a mother of six boys, Ruth often speaks about grace, faith, and family, providing practical wisdom for parents who seek to raise their children with a deep love for Christ.

Join us for this heartfelt and practical conversation filled with Ruths wisdom on parenting, discipleship, and creating a home where God's love is always present.

Connect with Ruth:

Instagram:

@ruthchousimons

@gracelaced

Website:

www.gracelaced.com

https://ruthchousimons.com/

Resources Mentioned:

Home is Right Where You Are

White Bird

Chapters

(03:00) Navigating Parenting Seasons

(06:11) The Importance of Home and Gods Presence

(09:01) Discipling Children in Faith

(11:54) Tips for Raising Boys to Love Jesus

(14:54) The Challenge of Presence in Parenting

(17:47) Launching Kids into Adulthood

(21:12) Sibling Relationships and Family Bonds

(24:11) Lessons Learned from Parenting

The Christian Parenting Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org