A new perspective on Thanksgiving with Raymond Arroyo
Nov 21 • 28:12
A new perspective on Thanksgiving with Raymond Arroyo
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A new perspective on Thanksgiving with Raymond Arroyo

November 21, 2023 • 28:12 • Steph Thurling

Hi Friends! 

We have a fun interview today, just in time for Thanksgiving! Most of us know that there is a funny little tradition for the President to pardon a turkey on Thanksgiving day. But do you know where that tradition came from? It actually started with Abraham Lincoln and his son, Tad. My guest today Raymond Arroyo wrote a childrens book that tells the story!

 

Today Raymond and I talk about how we are parenting in a challenging time, but we can learn from parents who have gone before us, the influence we have in our kids lives and the influence they have in ours, how Abraham Lincoln grew in faith over the years, what he meant Thanksgiving to be, and what mercy means for us and our kids.

 

I hope this episode gives you a unique perspective on my personal favorite holiday! I put a link for mirliton dressing below, so you can try a new recipe this year! 

Remember that, at its core, Thanksgiving is about unity, mercy, and the family we are blessed with. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

With love,

Steph 

Connect with Raymond

Social media:

 @realraymondarroyo

Website:

www.raymondarroyo.com

www.raymondarroyochristmas.com

Links mentioned:

Last chance to get your copy of Jesus, the Light of the World before December 1!

Mirliton Dressing

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This weeks episode is special because Im sitting down with my friend and pastor, Brian Suter. Brian and his wife Courtney, planted Branch Church here in Minnesota about four years ago, and my family has been part of it since the beginning. Were talking all about how our church approaches kids ministry, and its a little different than what you might expect!

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Every church and family is different, what matters is creating space for kids to grow spiritually.
  • At Branch, weve seen firsthand how kids can engage with worship, teaching, and the church body when given the opportunity.
  • Church planters and their families need encouragement, prayer, and practical help from their communities.
  • Children are capable of profound spiritual insight when we trust them and include them in the churchs life.

Brian Suter is the founding pastor of Branch Church in Minnesota. He leads with a passion for authentic community and intentional discipleship. Alongside his wife, Courtney, Brian has helped shape a church that values family, connection, and spiritual growth for all ages.

This conversation gives a behind-the-scenes look at my own church and how we think about kids and discipleship. I hope it encourages you to think creatively about how your family can grow in faith together.

(00:00) Introduction to Brian Suter and Branch Church

(03:52) The Journey of Church Planting

(09:56) Supporting Church Planters

(11:57) Innovative Kids Ministry at Branch Church

(17:56) Challenges and Benefits of Kids in Service

(28:01) Encouraging Family Discipleship at Home

Resources Mentioned

Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide

Branch Church

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Answering kids' hard questions - faith, science, and suffering with Justin Brierley

Todays episode is such a fascinating and encouraging conversation. Im joined by Justin Brierley, journalist, author, and Christian apologistand were diving into how we as parents can guide our kids through some of lifes biggest questions about faith, doubt, and belief.

Heres what youll hear in today's conversation:

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  • Topics like the resurrection, suffering, and science can be discussed in age-appropriate and meaningful ways.
  • How we respond to questions is just as important as the answers we givegentleness builds trust.
  • Sharing your personal faith and doubts can create a safe space for kids to explore theirs.

Justin Brierley is a UK-based journalist, speaker, and author who has spent years hosting thoughtful conversations around faith and skepticism. His book, Why Im Still a Christian, explains why he still has faith in Jesus after conversations with skeptics and atheists all across the world. And his book, The Surprising Rebirth of Belief in God, explores how faith is making a comeback in surprising ways. Justin is passionate about equipping parents to walk alongside their kids through questions of belief with wisdom and compassion.

Whether your child is full of curiosity or facing doubt, this episode offers the tools and encouragement to walk that road together with faith, honesty, and grace.

(03:02) Engaging Skeptics: Convincing Arguments for God's Existence

(05:54) The Historical Evidence of the Resurrection

(15:01) Addressing the Problem of Suffering

(24:09) God's Response to Suffering and the Hope of Redemption

(25:05) Understanding Suffering Through Faith

(26:36) Navigating Children's Questions on Suffering

(29:58) Engaging with Skeptical Teens

(32:11) Using Science to Explain Faith

(37:17) Embracing Imperfection in Parenting

Resources Mentioned

Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide

How a dice can show that God exists

Why Im Still a Christian book

Connect with Justin

Justin Brierleys website

Surprising Rebirth podcast

Justins YouTube

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Todays episode is powerful, tender, and full of hope. Im joined by Lori Apon, a widow, a single mom of eight, and now a grandmother to twenty! Lori shares her deeply personal story of walking through grief and the chaos of early widowhood, and how Gods promises sustained her through it all.

Heres what youll hear in today's conversation:

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(03:05) The Journey of Becoming a Widow

(06:07) Challenges of Single Motherhood

(08:58) Building a Support System

(12:02) Navigating Grief and Community Support

(15:06) The Role of Mentorship in Parenting

(18:02) Faith and Overcoming Fear

(20:53) God's Promises and Their Impact

(23:49) Resources for Parenting Fatherless Kids

Connect with Lori

Raising Fatherless Kids podcast

Perspective Ministries

Resources Mentioned

Moms, Dads, and Grad Gift Guide

Fatherless events and resources

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Today Im joined by Kyle Worley, and were breaking down what it actually means to have union with Christ and anchor our childrens identity in God in the middle of a world full of noise, confusion, and competing worldviews.  

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(02:26) Cultivating Friendship in Family Dynamics

(04:53) Understanding Union with Christ

(10:24) Fellowship as the Goal of Salvation

(16:41) Communicating the Gospel to Children

(24:06) Identity in Christ: A Foundation for Parenting

(27:39) Encouragement and Resources for Parents

Connect with Kyle

Home with God book

Instagram

KyleWorley.net

Knowing Faith podcast

Resources Mentioned

Tiny Theologians Podcast

Slugs and Bugs

Kaleidoscope Kids Bibles

Untriggered

Moms, Dads, and Grads Gift Guide

Christian Parenting Podcast

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Hello Friends,

Todays episode was such a gift. Im joined by Willa Kane and Sally Breedlove. Their journeyfrom personal tragedy to launching a global prayer movementleft me deeply inspired, and I know it will move you too.

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

  • Whether parenting littles or guiding grown children, prayer and scripture remain the foundation.  
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Willa and Sally are the co-authors of the Eighth Day Prayers series, a beautifully crafted resource designed to guide families in intentional, scripture-centered prayer. With years of experience as moms (and now grandmothers!), they speak from the heart and from a place of deep wisdom and faith.

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With love,

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(08:13) The Meaning Behind Eighth Day Prayers

(17:30) The Impact of Consistent Prayer

(22:00) Encouragement for Busy Parents

(23:30) Practical Tips for Engaging with Scripture

(23:49) Finding Quiet Moments in Parenting

(25:31) Utilizing Carpool Time for Spiritual Growth

(26:46) The Impact of Daily Practices on Future Generations

(29:08) The Power of Music in Faith Transmission

(30:15) Observing Faith in the Next Generation

(31:39) Navigating Challenges in Parenting

(33:18) Trusting God Through Difficult Times

(35:42) Leading with Delight in Parenting

(37:05) Reflecting on Parenting Journeys

(41:24) The Importance of God's Delight in Us

(43:32) Sharing Resources for Spiritual Growth

Resources Mentioned:

Adventure Bible

Untriggered

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Eighth Day Prayers

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About the Host

Steph Thurling

Steph Thurling is Executive Director of Christian Parenting and host of The Christian Parenting Podcast.

Steph has her master’s in youth, family, and culture from Fuller Theological Seminary and has a background in youth and children’s ministry. She is co-author of Raising Prayerful Kids, a book that shares easy, life-giving, and fun ways to teach kids to pray. She loves helping families grow closer to each other and to God through meaningful experiences and conversations. Steph is a frequent speaker at churches and mom groups and is known for her relatable stories, practical ideas, and gentle encouragement.

Steph lives in Minnesota with her husband and three amazing and hilarious kids. When she is not hanging out with her family, you can probably find her on a walk with a friend, organizing things that won’t stay organized, or somewhere cozy reading a book.

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